Fantabulous Trip To Delhi

It was a fantabulous trip with lot of adventure, excitement and in the end extreme pleasure. I and my friend Ashutosh started our tip on 26th Nov’10; we both were excited as we had planned things well in advance to avoid any worries within our trip. It was a 10 day long trip with more than 4 destinations to visit. We had all our reservations in place, we knew where we will be staying and what all places we have to visit.



On 26th Nov’10 at 11:10Am we started our journey towards Delhi, we had our reservation in Duronto express, it was a 20 hour long journey from Pune to Delhi. Duronto is a very good train with all hygienic facilities; it has all the facilities of Rajdhani express. It is a non-stop train except few stops for servicing purpose. It was a pleasant journey with lot of fun.On 27th Nov’10 around 07:15Am we reached Delhi (Hizbul nizamuddin) Railway station.

We hired an auto rickshaw and moved towards our friend’s room, he works in Delhi and stays near Kutubminar Area. I had my Digi camera with me and I started taking pictures of this beautiful journey, because of Common wealth Games there are lot of improvements one can notice in Delhi, especially the roads are wide and clean. It was morning time and at around 8:20Am we reached to our friends place. Our friend’s room is very near to Kutubminar and from his balcony we can easily view this historical monument, he stays here from last 3years but never got a chance to visit this beautiful monument. But we don’t want to miss this opportunity and with an hour’s time we both got fresh and decided to visit all important places in Delhi.



We started our journey from Kutubminar, it’s a must see historical monument of India, it’s a huge and startling monument. It is the world's tallest brick minaret with a diameter of 14.32m at the base and about 2.75m on the top with a height of 72.5m constructed by Qutubuddin Aibak. Qutub-Minar is in red and buff sandstone is the highest tower in India. we both enjoyed that place and clicked many photographs.

Me and Ashutosh are very good friends and we both belongs to same na tive place in UP. We are friends from last 10years and even our families know each other very well. We both have same area of interest and that’s why we both enjoy each other’s company.



We stayed there for an hour’s time and then we decided to visit India Gate, Delhi have improved a-lot in their transport facilities, within few minutes we got Bus for India Gate, let me tell you I have never seen such bus services in Pune, the bus was full air-conditioned with digital display.

It took around 45mins to reach India Gate. It is truly deserves to be called as national monument of India, Its a huge 42m high stone arch of victory, stands at the eastern end of Rajpath. More than 90,000 Indian Army soldiers who died in the First World War are inscribed on the walls of this grand structure.



Amar Jawan Jyoti, was lit under the arch of the India Gate to honor the brave unknown soldiers. The flame is flanked by uniformed soldiers, who stand guard over the flame. Near the flame, a shining rifle with a helmet on it, is placed on a high pedestal, as a tribute to the soldiers who sacrificed their lives in battle.





It was an incredible experience; lot of people from different part of India and out sited India came to see this huge structure. Delhi climate was very pleasant and we sat near India Gate for a while and had snacks. We clicked many photographs and finally we decided to move to our next destination. On the western site we can easily see the Rashtripati bhavan along with North and South Blocks. We decide to walk from India Gate to Rashtripati Bhavan.

North Block and the South Block are also known as Secretariat Building. The South Block houses have Prime Minister Office, Ministry of Defence and the Ministry of External Affairs.



The North Block primarily houses have Ministry of Finance and the Home Ministry.

The terms 'North Block' and 'South Block' are often used to refer to the Ministry of Finance and the Ministry of External Affairs respectively.

We clicked many photographs there, we also tried to enter Rashtripati Bhavan but it need prior permission and pass which we didn’t had, so finally we clicked few pictures from Bhavans Gate itself.



From there we moved towards Parliament house, Parliament House is a massive circular edifice 560 feet (170.69 metres) in diameter. Its circumference is one-third of a mile 536.33 metres and it covers an area of nearly six acres (24281.16 square metres). The open verandah on the first floor is fringed with a colonnade of 144 creamy sandstone columns—each 27 feet (8.23 metres) high. The building has twelve gates among which Gate No. 1 on the Sansad Marg is the main gate. It is a great piece of work.



From there we thought of visiting Lal Quila, someone told us to travel through Metro. Delhi Metro is one of the world famous mode of transport, it’s one of the reasons for tourist attraction in Delhi; we decide to experience this latest mode of transport. It was a fabulous experience, things were really organize well, and there were no sign of confusion, things were really planned and controlled well, even a person travelling for the first time in Delhi can easily locate the route and which train to catch accordingly. It was a nice experience, with in 30min we reached Lal Quila.



Lal Quila is the most famous and popular tourist destinations in Old Delhi, built by Shahjahan. The fort is also the site from which the Prime Minister of India addresses the nation on 15th August, the day India achieved independence from the British. It also happens to be the largest monument in Old Delhi. It’s a massive piece of work, I really feel proud that we have maintained these exclusive monuments and made public to experience its royalty.



It was a splendid experience for both of us; we were enjoying the beauty of Delhi. Delhi is a must see place to visit for everyone, till that time it was evening and we both were very hungry. We both sat near a chart shop and had one Tiki chart there.



From there we moved to Rohatak for one of our friend’s marriage. We both went to ISBT to catch Bus for Rohatak and fortunately with in no time we got the bus. It was a long 3 hours journey form Delhi and bus condition was also not that good. Anyhow at around 8:30pm we both reach Rohatak and attended our friend’s marriage. That was the end of our trip to Delhi, next day evening we both catch the train for Varanasi to visit our native place and to visit Varanasi world famous holy place.

Learning’s from Life On A Bike

Yesterday I got a very good lesson because of my ignorant habit, life is full of learning’s and we learn from our mistakes, every time we face any critical situations and able to tackle it, we graduate to next level, but it does not mean we must always repeat the same mistakes.

It was a very interesting experience, I just thought to share it with all you guys. It must have happened to most of us but still we never take it seriously and repeat the same mistake again and again.

Yesterday at 7:00pm I left my office and went towards parking, I started my bike and move toward my home, but with in few minutes my bike started giving jerks and stopped. It was hardly a kilometer I must have covered. I was not tensed but little surprised and started thinking about the reason for this abrupt stop.

The first thing which came to my mind is petrol, from last 3 days I am riding my bike on reserve, and yesterday morning because of laziness I didn’t stopped at Petrol pump. I opened the Petrol tank and shaken my bike twice, I was able to feel the noise of petrol. So one thing was clear that there is some petrol in my bike, but I was still confused with the reason.

I take good care of my bike, in every two months I put my bike for servicing, this is my new bike which I have purchased 2 years back. I knew nothing can go wrong so easily. I was not tensed, but bit worried because I wanted to go home early.

There was so much of traffic on the road and because of the noise I was unable to think properly. I just saw a small lane on my right side; I crossed the road and pushed my bike in to that lane. I parked my bike near a shop, there was very less noise and then I started feeling comfortable, I had one five star fruit and nut in my pocket, I removed that and started eating and thinking about the next step that I should take.

First thing which came to my mind was the nearest help which I can get, it is from my office, so I called one of my office colleague but that was just a waste of time and money, I had only 12Rs balance and I wasted my 4Rs in that call. He gave me some wearied advice which I already knew, He told me to go to some mechanic which was 1km away from that place, I already knew that and I had kept that as my last option.

I have few very good friends in my office but because of Diwali most of them have already left for their hometown. Then I called another colleague and told him about my situation, he immediately got ready for my help and with in few minutes he also reached at my place.

He looked at my bike and tried to start it but nothing was effective, at lastly we both thought to get some petrol and try once again, but we didn’t had any empty bottle. We both went to near shopkeeper and asked for empty bottle, but that guy was totally business minded and dined lastly we have to purchase one water bottle which cost me 15Rs. We drinked half bottle of water and rest all we drained on the road.

On my friends bike we went to nearest petrol pump and purchased 1lt of petrol which cost me something around 50Rs. We both came back towards my bike and started filling its petrol tank. We both were very hopeful that this time it will definitely get start. But nothing worked out, all went in to wane. My bike was still in the same condition and now I knew that I have to drag it to the mechanic. I asked my friend if he can help me in dragging through his bike, but nothing worked out we tried but it was very difficult for both of us to control our bikes, lastly I decide to drag my bike, my friend had some pending work at office so he left from there.

I started dragging my bike and thinking about the reasons, I knew I have to drag my bike to 1km, but with in few meters I started sweating. It was already 8:30pm and now I have to move fast before shops gets closed. But I was very fortunate, with in 100mts of range I saw one small shop, few people were sitting there and one person was involved in repairing an old bike, I took one long relieved breath and approached towards that shop.

I asked that guy to check my bike, after some time he told me that there is no petrol in the bike; I got surprised as I have recently put 1lt of petrol in my bike. He removed the pipe which connects the petrol tank to engine and show me that there is no petrol flowing in the pipe.

I got surprised and told him that there might be some blockage in the pipe and asked him to pass air through it, he did the same thing and with in few seconds petrol started flowing through it. He immediately connects that pipe to engine and started the bike, and my bike got started, I was so relieved and thanked him for helping me. I gave him 10Rs, and thanked him again.


My losses and learning’s from this incident.

Loss = 4Rs phone call+15Rs water bottle+10Rs to mechanic =29Rs

Learning
Never ride your bike in reserve, as soon as bike came in to reserve fill your tank again it will keep petrol floating in to the pipes.

A trip to Murud Jal Jazeera and Kihim Beach

It was an amazing trip to Kihim beach and Murud jal jazeera. On Saturday evening 16th Oct’10, we all started our trip. It was a nice cloudy day. We all were set to enjoy this amazing trip.

We started at around 05:30 pm; we had booked an Innova for six people. We purchased few wafers, cold drinks and brown bottles to enjoy our trip. With in 45mins we all were out of Pune limits.

We all were enjoying our drinks and had few professional discussion. At around 8:30pm we stopped near a Dhaba and had our dinner, food was nice and we all enjoyed it. After an hours time again we started our journey towards Kihim beach.

It was around 11:00pm and still we had not reached to Kihim beach, but no one was upset regarding our stay and food. We had seen much worse situations in our past trips, where we had spend whole night on the beach and got caught by few police men.

However this time we were bit lucky, at 11:30pm we reached to Kihim beach. Without any thoughts we all approached towards the beach and had a small walk, there were few cottages facing sea site, we tried there to get a room for placing our luggage, but we were not that lucky, at lastly after 30min we got a place, thanks to that shopkeeper who helped us.



After placing our luggage we all were set to enjoy the sea site, room was very near to seashore, every one started approaching toward sea with our brown bottles. We all sat near seashore and started talking about our few friends who didn’t manage to come for this trip. We were bit disappointed with the reasons given by them. But any how we deviated from that topic and suddenly two of our friends Umesh and Praveen started discussing on the mythological facts, they started debating on the existence of Rama and Mahabharata era.



This is not the first time we were listening to this discussion, after having a few drinks they usually talk on this topic, and believe me all the time it went in to a never ending topic.

As the night passes people starts falling asleep, but as I said these two guys were still debating on Mythological facts. This was a never ending debate, I had my camera with me and I was enjoying taking pictures.



Now it was morning and we all were still at seashore, I was busy in taking pictures of beautiful morning and few of our friends were sleeping and these two guys were still debating.



Kihim beach was very rocky and it was very difficult to go inside and enjoy, and the beach was not that clean. At lastly we all decided not to spend our much of time here instead we will go to some other place and we finally decide on Murud jal jazeera.

But in the mean time Praveen went inside the sea, we all were calling him but he didn’t listen to us, now we didn’t had any option other than just to wait for him. As we were sitting near seashore we all decide to play football, Ranjan had brought the ball and we all started playing, it was not that easy to play football in sand, we were finding very difficult to run in sand, finally Praveen also came out of the sea and started playing with us. We had two teams of 3 players; finally we lost with Ranjan’s team on a respective score of 5-0 haa haa LOLz.


Finally we all went towards our room and had poha and tea in our breakfast, we started taking bath and got ready for our next destination. As I said the beach was bit rocky and because of it Preaveen got few injuries and scars when he went inside the sea. However the injuries were not that severe and he managed to come out of those pains.



Finally in the afternoon we all started our journey towards Murud Jal jazeera, it was 40km away from Kihim beach, we all were tired and with in few minutes we all started sleeping in Cab.

In an hour’s time we all reached to Murud jal jazeera, it was a nice palce, a fort surrounded by sea water. We all sat on a boat and went towards this amazing fort. It was a huge fort in a 22acrs of land. We hired a Guide who helped in visiting all the important places with in the fort.



It was an amazing experience; it is really unbelievable to imagine how people in those eras would have built this kind of fort. We all stayed there for an hour’s time, then we went back towards seashore. We had clicked many pictures of that fort, it was a marvelous experience.





Again we boarded on our cab and started approaching back to Pune, but till the time we all were hungry, near Murud beach we stopped and had our Lunch. For half an hour we all enjoyed the Murud beach, the beach was very clean and it was around 05:00pm. Sun Rays were reflecting on the water of sea, it was an amazing view, I clicked one snap there.





We started our journey again, on the way we had faced heavy rain fall near lonavala but still we all were enjoying in our cab. At around 10:00pm we all reached Pune and said good bye to each other.



It was an amazing trip with lots and lots of fun and memories, thanks to all my friends who manage to spare time for this trip and make these two days memorable for lifetime.

Ayodhya verdict - Maintain Peace

Today AYODHYA VERDICT will be out, Whatever might be the verdict on this issue i think we all Indians have become matured enough to understand that our Court will give the right & fair judgment which we should accept without any hue & cry.

This is my humble request to every Indian that don’t involve in any such activity which makes our Nations glory in to drain. We must accept this verdict in a positive manner.

Peace and calm is required maintain the communal harmony in the country. As we are the people of unitedness and people who have set example of communal harmony in the past.

When there is RAM in Ramzan and ALI in Diwali, it should not matter much, whether there should be a Mosque or a Temple in Ayodhya !!! May God bless our Nation with Peace and Unity

These politicians have ruined common man's life do not give them Chance for success by creating violence in our own country

There is nothing greater than a human life, we all must follow the ideals of Ram and Allah. War & Killing leads to nothing but LOSS.

Interesting Facts about My Mustache :D

Recently I have published this picture on facebook and see the kind of comments I have received from my friends. Sites like facebook and twitter are really helpful for people who want to stay connected with their friends and family, In spite of having hectic work schedule these sites helps people to stay connected with each other and share their thoughts and views.





I would only say that these sites are great place to get relieved from your stress and relax.

Interesting Facts About Human Age

Most of the people get worried of their growing age. I have seen people hiding their age, especially women do that. But this is a serious concern for every one, a single white hair makes us panic and we start thinking about our growing age.

Death is a part of human lives, the day we are born our age countdown begins and it ends with our death.
It’s the biggest truth for every living being on earth that one day we all have to die, but most of us are not worried about death. We are more worried about the pain and unattractiveness that age brings with it.



There are many questions related to human age which are still unrevealed, like why our age is not static, if we all are made of same elements then why every one dies at a different age, and is there any way we can counter this problem.

I will be sharing my beliefs on these topics.

As we all know human body is like a machine, and every machine has its own life span, same way our body parts have a certain time span after that it can fail at any instance of time.

Most of the time genetics and luck play a huge role in how log you live. However I still believe luck has nothing to do with the limitations of human life span. We all have potential to live longer if we do the right things and follow life’s basic rules.

Research has shown that there are more chances of developing heart disease in those who don’t exercise regularly; doctors have also concluded that people in the lower 20% of fitness were three times more likely to die prematurely than the fittest group.

Healthy eating, proper sleep and regular exercise make our body live longer. In today's hectic life our body needs proper sleep, to get recharge properly to face the next morning with the same enthusiasm and energy, an eight our sleep is what our body requires. Sleeping more than eight hours may reduce your life expectancy.

According to a study by Dr David Weeks at the Royal Edinburgh Hospital, a healthy sex life can look up to seven years younger than those who don't. This is because sex reduces stress, leads to greater contentment and better sleep.

Many cardiologist have suggest that begin your day with smile, a good laugh is like a mini workout - 100 to 200 laughs are equivalent to ten minutes of jogging or rowing. Research also shows that it also lowers levels of stress hormones, and heightens the activity of the body's natural defensive killer cells and antibodies.

People usually find harder to exercise regularly, but that’s the biggest key to increase you life span.



Many people prefer to go with anti ageing products and creams, I don’t know much about these products, but one thing is sure that these are just temporary way to look good; they will only affect your outer skin and body.

The best way to look young and healthy is always think positive, enjoy each and every stage of your life, and make yourself happy and energetic. One day we all have to die and we all have to face the consequences of getting old. But these are all part of life and every individual have to face this, it is always good if you take it in a positive way and enjoy the beauty of life.

Are we really independent?

Yesterday we all must have celebrated our nations 63rd Independence Day. But do you think we are really independent? Sometime I feel like, no-one really cares about our nation Independence, we all have forgotten the bravery and sacrifices of our freedom fighters.

Do you think I am wrong, if so then why there is so much of corruptions and inhumanity in the society? We do not have respect for human life. We have only respect for money and we are ready to do any dam shit thing to get this money.

Every one is corrupt, you can’t trust any one. No one really cares about Indian prestige, that’s why CWG (common wealth games) are becoming wealth game for politicians. It’s a public wealth which is being commonly looted by our nation’s politician.


We have world's richest people in our country, but still there are lacks of people living at Rs.20 per day consumption or less. Prices of daily ingredient are rising like any thing, but the incomes of middle class are still the same. We don’t have foodgrains in market but we have tonnes of foodgrains found rotten in government godowns.

So are we celebrating this milestone? Let me tell you what Indians have understood from the word independence. We have independence of taking bribe, we have freedom to break all rules, we have freedom to sell all sub standard products, we have independence of destroying public property and we have freedom of killing and looting people. For sixty hours nearly the pak. Terrorists hold the Mumbai to ransom, farmers commit suicide and extremist kill the innocents. And, those who are said to be the leaders of our country to whom we have the faith in them that they lead well our country, throw benches and chairs even chapals at one another. This is what we have achieved in last 63 years.

There is so much of corruption in India that common men are getting addicted to it. There is hardly any area left which is not being effect by corruption.


So what kind of Independence we are celebrating, I laughed yesterday when I saw public celebrating independence day, I just thought that once again in the year the time has come when calm and casual patriot sleeping in us wakes up to celebrate the day of Independence.

Inception "Keeps your Dream Alive"

Inception is an incredible movie with an unusual story lineup. Sunday night I watched this movie, I was mesmerize with the concept and imagination of the writer. I personally like the movies having concept beyond human imaginations. It’s a movie where technology enters in the human mind through dream invasion. Implausible thought explores the truth of human imaginations and truth about the human mind. I was so fascinated with the concept that I have thought of writing a post on this topic. This post can also be considered as a continuation of my previous post Interesting facts about 4th dimension.

Let’s start with a basic knowledge about dreams. A dream is a series of images, thoughts, sounds, or emotions which pass through the mind during sleep. There is no physical appearance to dreams. Dreams are our own thoughts, imaginations and architecture which comes to our mind when we are in deep sleep. However no one has ever able to understand the concept and purpose of dreams, they have been a topic of speculation and interest throughout the history. I have always considered dreams as a treasure that has been underestimated from the beginning of human evolution.



Some time I feel concepts like 4th dimension, time machine and dreams are interrelated. No one knows how mind works, No one know how dreams comes to you mind, mind is beyond human intelligence. If we can explore our mind we can reach a level where life and death becomes a diminutive thing, I think we hardly know any thing about human mind, we know things which are physical in nature, but things like ideas, dreams, imaginations, visual display and many more which happens in human mind are still topic of discussion. We hardly know how dreams come, are they real, if not then why we feel it, people screams, walk, shout and cry in dreams. We feel the same pain and emotions as in real life.

Today only assumptions can be made on these topics; we need more research and techniques to explore these interesting facts about human imaginations. Let me give you my perspective towards these concepts, I will be relating all the facts which comes from human imagination but are yet a topic of speculation.



If you have seen the movie one thing you must have noticed that time moves faster in dreams than in real life. As per my personal experience I think the logic is quite practical, most of us must have noticed that time spend within our dreams are much faster. However as per speed, distance and time formula time is inversely proportional to speed. It means if we are at a high speed equivalent to light speed, time spend will be almost negligible. As per a theory if ever we build a train which can move with a speed of light i.e. 7 rounds of earth in one second, the time spend by the passenger of train will be very minimal compare to the outside world.

So one thing is sure that if we want to go to a future world we have to travel with a speed of light, but in case if we want to travel to our history world we have to let time to get faster than normal. If you have seen the movie you must have noticed that the character played by Leonardo DiCaprio – “Cobb” always able to see her wife in his dreams which is dead in actual life. Even Robert Fischer, Jr., a multibillion dollar oil company heir, finds his dying father in dreams, who was actually dead in real world. This all shows that we can travel to our past world while dreaming.

I don’t know how much research has been made before writing the story for this movie. But Scientifically thing looks acceptable. I hope you must have enjoyed reading this post, feel free to share your thoughts and questions on this topic.

Human Emotions and the Mystery of Tears

What are emotions, why a body reacts the way our emotions comes. How many of us know about tears. Human body is full of ambiguity and tears are one of those subjects to which even neurologist are not clear.

Tears are one of the most unpredictable events happens when a person is in Strong emotions, such as sorrow or elation. But have you ever thought why it only comes when a person is in strong emotional mind-set.

Scientifically Tears are the liquid product of a process of crying to clean and lubricate the eyes. But do we all agree to this, do you also think that tears are only meant to clean and lubricate our eyes. Then why tears only come when we are involved in some emotional act.

I have heard about the different types of tears like reflex tears, tears form irritations etc etc, but the most unusual and natural type is tears comes out of our emotions.

Human behaviors in emotions are full of uncertainties, why we laugh, why we cry, why we do playful things, no body knows about this. The only thing which we know is all being controlled by mind and human brain is the most complex structure known, even neurologist some times get confused with its structure and behavior.



It is scientifically proved that tears brought about by emotions have a different chemical make up than those for lubrication? It clearly means that the tears which came out of our emotions doest not meant to clean or lubricate our eyes, their cause must be different.

Have you ever thought of the reasons why tears comes out when we are in strong emotions, i have the answer for you. As i said our emotional tears have different chemical make up they contain more of protein based hormones and one of them is leucine enkephalin a natural painkiller. It means that when we are in strong emotional acts tears helps us to release tension and emotional dams in our mind; it helps to keep us healthy and mentally fit.

One thing is sure that we all are naturally equipped to tackle any situation in our life. However as time passes we became more dependable on external things, but god has made every species self dependant and can manage to survive in any circumstances. There are many things which are yet to be discovered in human beings, our feelings our emotions and much more human behaviour are yet unanswered.

Don’t you think, how great is our God that he would create us in this way? Feel free to give your comments and views on this topic.

Why do people show off their wealth?

Wealth show is a part of our life; no one can deny this fact. But why we do this, why we want others to look our assets and luxuries. We all know the reason but still we pretend others that this is just a casual display.

Do you think wealth show is a good practice, what is your motive behind showing off wealth to others, do we want to prove something to others, is this in human nature or only few people do such acts.

I have seen people spending mammoth money for small functions, there are people who spend all their life savings on their children’s marriage. This money can be utilized in much better ways, don’t you think functions can be made more economical and rest of the money can be saved for their future. The more you have the more you spend, or do you belongs to the same category who thinks that these occasions come only once in life so you must spend money with out any thoughts just to show off.



Why we always compare with others, don’t we have our own thoughts? Don’t we have our own liking and disliking, then why we always desire some good comments from others?

It might be in human nature, no one want to be seen down to others. In this present competitive world, every one wants to show their power, and power comes from money. Every one wants to have a special position in there society. Every one wants a special attention from others.

I am not blaming any one, this is our own fault, and we have started this trend. Most of us measures a person personality based on their wealth and money. However wealth show is not a good practice, wealth show is an artificial reverence, it doest not reflects any ones personality. If you think people will start giving you importance and respect based on your wealth, it is just your myth. People will always praise on your faces but it doest not mean that they have got influenced with your assets.



I don’t know if we all think in the same manner but one thing is sure there is a value to respect which money can not buy.

Feel free to share your thoughts and views on this topic.

Friends Forever

Yesterday will be counted among those days in my life when I felt very distressing. I was completely fine till yesterday morning, I knew that my friend got transferred to other station, but yesterday afternoon when I went to his room to see him off, I realized that, after today it will be hardly possible for both of us to meet oftenly.

He is into Defence service and transfer is a part of his job. He is one of my closest friend, we have done our schooling and college from same institute. I really feel proud to say that I have friends like him.

I don’t know how to describe those feelings; I felt very lonely and took few deep breaths. We hug each other, and had a big smile on our faces; I knew we both were trying to hide our emotions, which were really painful.

I know we will meet and always be in-touch, and we will be friends forever.
I have written few lines on our friendship.


"Naseeb ko agar ho ga manzoor
To hum fir milen ge zaroor
Bhale is lamhe ne kiya hai hume door
Par hamari dosti hi hai hamara garoor"

Things which leads to self-confidence.

Self-confidence is nothing but a level of positive thinking that helps you to believe in yourself and on your abilities. Self-confidence can helps you in performing your work with full energy.

Now the question is do we all have self-confidence, if yes then why most of us hesitate to carry out new things in life. If your answer is No, then what are the areas where we need improvement to gain our self-confidence?


As we all know that knowledge is power and certainly it helps you to gain confidence. But don't you think apart from knowledge there are many areas which helps a person to gain self-confidence.



Self confidence not only comes from knowledge but also from the status that you have in your society, if you are a well-known and wealthy person you will never hesitate from doing strange things. Self-confidence comes when you have no fear in your mind.

There are many politicians, sports person and Actors who never went to schools, they have very less knowledge about rest of the world, but their confidence level is so high that where ever they go and what ever they do becomes a news for rest of the world.

But how can a normal person gain confidence and perform things with out hesitation, I have few suggestion for them. Have you ever noticed that you feel different when you wear certain cloths? Your confidence level will certainly increase if you have wear your best cloths and accessory. Improve on your communication skills, inspite of having less knowledge on a particular topic you can easily come out of that discussion if you have a good communication. Try to become physically fit. Always talk to yourself, it looks silly but it really helps, always motivate your-self, remember your past experiences where you have performed out-standing, always try to boost you self. Finally this seems easy but most of us forgot to do this, just smile and things seem better somehow.


Self-confidence is a vast topic and even small things can change your prospective, things like blessing from elders, a small pray to God, and a small token of belief can change your mind set. We all know where we lag, talk to your self, try to find out areas where you need improvement. I am sure practicing these ideas will help you in gaining your self-confidence.

Sexual orientation can be a confusing topic!

What are Homosexual, Heterosexual and Bisexual? Most of the time I have seen people getting confused on these topics. These are all related to human feelings and sexual orientation towards each other. Don't you think we need more research to understand human behavior and their feelings? This post will help most of us to understand more about them, their behavior and their feelings.

Let’s start with the basic understanding of these terms
Heterosexual: - having sexual and romantic attraction primarily or exclusively to members of the other sex.
Homosexual: - having sexual and romantic attraction primarily or exclusively to members of one’s own sex.
Bisexual: - having a significant degree of sexual and romantic attraction to both men and women.

As we all know that most of the world’s population is heterosexual, but do you know that around 5% to 10% of world population is homosexual and bisexual. There are very few people who came out openly as homosexual, In most of the cases people don’t want to declare them-self as homosexual as they don’t want to face the discrimination form rest of the world.

Sexual Orientation is the main reason for being called heterosexual, homosexual or bisexual, Sexual Orientation is commonly discussed as a characteristic of the individual, and it always defined in relation terms and involves relationships with other individuals. A person can be identified as heterosexual or homosexual according to its behavior while performing sexual acts and romantic talks.

According to the biological sex of the individuals, while performing sexual acts an individual involvement relative to each other decides weather a person is homosexual, bisexual or heterosexual.

In-spite of having a male or female organs, there are people who like to act in a different way then usual, it is by acting or desiring to act. If a male person have feelings of desire to act while performing sexual acts then he will get more attracted towards males, and this act makes him homosexual. In the same way if a woman have feelings for performing the act she will get attracted towards females.



Now one thing is for sure that these acts are not normal and against human behavior and against biological nature. If we want to see our world growing generation after generation we need people who are heterosexual not homosexual. Although Research and clinical literature demonstrate that same-sex sexual and romantic attractions, feelings, and behaviors are normal and positive variations of human sexuality.

In 1977, world Health organization ICD-9 listed homosexuality as a mental illness; it was removed from the ICD-10, endorsed by the Forty-third World Health Assembly on May 17, 1990.Like the DSM-II, the ICD-10 added ego-dystonic sexual orientation to the list, which refers to people who want to change their gender identities or sexual orientation because of a psychological or behavioral disorder.

So one thing is clear from above statement that homosexuality is a psychological disorder, and if its a disorder then why not we accept it, we need more research and intense thoughts on this issue, we must work on some treatments for these people.

These people are as normal as we are, we can not discriminate them because of their one behavior. In addition to their sexual behavior, their might be other reasons why these people get attracted toward their own kind. Apart from physical affection between partners there are things like sharing same goals and values, mutual support which might be the reason for liking each other.

My motive behind writing this post is to explore more about different sexuality in human beings, to understand why these people have different feeling than us, are they having any disorder and how can we create awareness among us to accept these people as one among us. I don’t want to hurt anyone’s feelings. I hope you like this post and would like to hear your thoughts on this topic.
(Most of the facts and figures are taken from wikipedia.org)

Your friends are your biggest enemy?

Your friends are your biggest enemy? It might be a very divisive topic and there could be lot of differences between my thoughts and yours, but I don’t want to be diplomatic, I don’t know why this thought came to my mind. There is some thing which made me to think in this way. Life is full of uncertainties; I don’t know what hurts me which made me to think in this direction.

I have many friends and they all are my well-wishers, but some times their behavior made me to think are they my true friends. What is a true friend is there any difference between a friend and a true friend.

Friends are very special in everyone’s life; no one can live without them. You need some one apart from your family to share your thoughts and feelings. But are they reliable, how many of us don’t share our friends personal things to some one else. You might be sharing some personal things with your friend but are you sure that it won’t get publicized. The person might be your true friend but are you also his true friend.

Do you know anyone without friends, or someone, who does not have a true friend?
There life must be running very smoothly, at times they must be feeling very lonely but don’t you think they are much secure and safe. They have their own world; they might be sharing their thoughts with someone from their family.

My suggestion would be don’t choose your friend in a hurry and don’t share your personal things with any one unless it’s your best friend and you can rely on him, or else you can be screwed anytime.

Why you want to look perfect?

Why you want to look perfect? Why every one wants to be fit and fine? Why you always play with your style? Why people fly their own kite? These are some question to which we all know the answer, but hardly any one tells the truth.

Biologically the only reason a men or a women wants to look good is to impress his/her opposite gender. However this may not be true in each and every situation. One more thing which we all must have noticed that most species of animals, the male is the more "beautiful" sex than female, so why is it different for humans? Take an example of Lion or Peacock, they all have something unique which makes them more attractive and which helps them to attract their opposite sex.



Then why it’s not the case with humans. A male human can be much muscular than a female, he can be tall and handsome, but on the other hand females are much pretty and beautiful, there is nothing unique about a male to which a female can not challenge.

There has to be something different in males or females, God can not do injustice with humans. It’s a very serious question to which no one knows the perfect answer. But I have the answers for you.



God has made a unique thing in both of them, but they are not using it properly, there is something unique in male which is not there is females, and something is unique about females which is not there in males.

I know most of people must be thinking in wrong direction but believe me something is surely different. Now let me expose the facts.



After analyzing I came to this point that males are born with big heart where as females are born with sharp mind. However when it comes to attracting each other women usually thinks from heart and men try to use their brain which makes them over smart.

I know most of you must be laughing and some of you must not be agreed to my point but this is the way I think, however if you have any other end to this topic don’t hesitate to share with me.

Cock----Cock----It was Chickenpox - Part-ll

When I wake up on Sunday, I had a seviour headache; I was unable to walk properly as I had an unbearable pain in my legs. I realized that this all happened because of my yesterday’s hectic schedule. But it was Sunday so I was bit relaxed that after taking rest for complete day I will be alright.

Conversely my son had already infected with chicken pox, from past 7 days he was under attack by this disease. He was almost recovered, anyhow I came in to his contact and with out knowing I also got infected.



On Sunday I was totally unaware that my body has started showing the symptoms of this disease, I was in complete pain and had fever. That night was a complete terrible for me, at time I use to shiver because of cold, and at time I feel hot and full of sweat.

Anyhow I spend that night and next morning I get up at 8:00 am, I had little body pain but it was Monday. Without thinking much about my health I started my routine work and at 9:00am I left for my office.

I reached office in half an hour’s time, and started my work. When I was typing I observed a small boil on my figure, this was the first time when I realized that this might be the chickenpox. With in no time I shattered that boil. I was not feeling well, and I took a small power nap. I started dreaming and watch myself with full of boils all over my body, with a shook I wake up and started my work again.

Till evening my body got exaggerated and I can see 3 to 4 more boils on my body. I knew I got infected and now I have to take precautions before it gets spread to my colleagues, I left early that day and reached home. I told my parents and wife about this and shown them the boils on my body. They all started praying that it won’t turn in to a massive.

I was not feeling well, my body had a seviour pain and now these boils also started itching. I was in a terrible condition, but that was the only start.

I took some pain killers and anyhow slept that night. Next morning when I wake up my body had around 50-60 boils. Now it was confirmed that I got chicken pox. My mother told me to not eat oily foods, stay away from other family members. I was in to my room lonely, I call at my office and took few days leave.

My mother bought some Neem leaves and spread all over my bed. I had a seviour itching all over my body but I have been warned not to touch those boils. It was a very painful situation, I was helpless. Any how I spend that night, but next morning was a complete horrendous experience, I had boils all over my body it was countless, I was in terrible pain.

I saw myself in mirror, my face, body every thing was buried under boils, I was looking horrific. I was in terrible itching; I sat on chair and started pulling my hairs. My father told me to calm down, he told me it’s a common thing and happens to every one infected with this disease.

Next few days were terrifying for me; doctors told me not to take spicy and oily food, I was eating all tasteless food. Because of those itching boils I was unable to sleep in nights. Those were the most irritating days of my life.

It took almost 15 days to recover me from that nauseating disease. I lost almost 7kg of my weight, my whole body got marks of chickenpox.

After a month past I still have marks all over my face and body from having chicken pox. Doctors have told me that these scars will take few more months to disappear. I can still feel those terrible days of my life and pray to God not to indulge me in this kind of disease.

Cock----Cock----It was Chickenpox - Part-l

This was the most terrible and painful experiences in my entire life. It came through my son and after him I got infected. It was Monday when I recognize that I got infected with chickenpox. But the story doesn’t begin from here.

Saturday’ 27th March 2010, it was one of the most hectic off days I have ever had. It was hot summer day; I wake up at 7:30am and got ready for an appointment with one of my office friend. At 9:00am I reached at my friends place, I left his place at 10:00am and thought I will reach home in half an hour time. But that was my thinking, destiny has decided some thing else for me. While coming back on the way I meet up with one of my close friend Pramood we have done our schooling and college together, currently he is in Indian Air Force. We both were on our bikes, we crossed each other. He ask me to stop; he was going towards the service station and told me to come along with him, as I can drop him back to his room. I got agreed and we both moved towards service station. After giving his bike for servicing, we thought of visiting another friend’s home, his name is Rakesh and he is in Merchant Navy. We both moved towards his home and in half an hour’s time we reached there, it was 12:00 pm noon and sun was on its full heat. We told him to get ready as we were planning to go for a movie. He went inside and came out after an hour’s time. Till then I was totally exhausted and full of sweat. I told my friends that since morning I am out of my home, so I will go home first and then will join you guys in cinema hall. They both got agreed, I took my bike and move towards my home while they both took an auto and move towards cinema hall.

I reached home at around 2:00 pm, as I was fully tired I took a bath and changed my cloths. Remember this was my second bath on that day. After getting refresh I again move towards cinema hall. My both friends were there enjoying cold coffee in CCD, I joined them and had one cold coffee.

I was totally unaware that the way I am taking the hot and cold stuffs it will affect my body immunity with in no time. Anyways let’s continue with the story. We went for the movie and after 2 hr we came out.

While having a friendly talk Pramood invited us for dinner on the same day in his officer’s mess. We all got agreed and decided to reunite at 7:30pm on his room. We all left for home, it was 5:00 pm in the evening.

I reached home and with in no time I got a call from Umesh. He is again one of my close friends. He told me to get ready for a small tracking, we usually go for tracking on weekends, there is a small hill near our area, Umesh and few of our friends has decided for a small tracking, in 15mins they all reached at my place and told me to come along with them. I went with them, it was a nice evening we all enjoyed the tracking. But my body was fully tired, at 8:00pm we all came down and started walking towards our home. But then I got call from Prommod he was waiting for me to join him on dinner as we had planed earlier. Rakesh and one more friend were already reached at Prammod’s place; they all were waiting for me.

I told Pramood that I am fully tired and may not join for dinner with them, they all got angry and started shouting at me. Pramood told me come along with Umesh and other friends, I asked Umesh but he dined.

I was feeling sad for Prammod that he did all the arrangement for us and because of my stupidity I am not in a position to join him for dinner. After getting continuous calls from Rakesh and Pramood I decided to join them for dinner.

As I came from the tracking I was completely tired and full of sweat, I took a bath again remember this was my 3rd bath on the same day then I went to Prammod’s place and joined them for dinner. It was a wonderful evening with delicious dinner.

But till then my body was completely bushed and because of so much of strain my immunity was completely gone. I came late that night and because of so much of strain with in no time I was in to my dreams.

Next morning when I wake up it was a complete horrendous experience for me …………TO BE CONTINUDE