Monday, July 12, 2010

Things which leads to self-confidence.



Self-confidence is nothing but a level of positive thinking that helps you to believe in yourself and on your abilities. Self-confidence can helps you in performing your work with full energy.

Now the question is do we all have self-confidence, if yes then why most of us hesitate to carry out new things in life. If your answer is No, then what are the areas where we need improvement to gain our self-confidence?


As we all know that knowledge is power and certainly it helps you to gain confidence. But don't you think apart from knowledge there are many areas which helps a person to gain self-confidence.



Self confidence not only comes from knowledge but also from the status that you have in your society, if you are a well-known and wealthy person you will never hesitate from doing strange things. Self-confidence comes when you have no fear in your mind.

There are many politicians, sports person and Actors who never went to schools, they have very less knowledge about rest of the world, but their confidence level is so high that where ever they go and what ever they do becomes a news for rest of the world.

But how can a normal person gain confidence and perform things with out hesitation, I have few suggestion for them. Have you ever noticed that you feel different when you wear certain cloths? Your confidence level will certainly increase if you have wear your best cloths and accessory. Improve on your communication skills, inspite of having less knowledge on a particular topic you can easily come out of that discussion if you have a good communication. Try to become physically fit. Always talk to yourself, it looks silly but it really helps, always motivate your-self, remember your past experiences where you have performed out-standing, always try to boost you self. Finally this seems easy but most of us forgot to do this, just smile and things seem better somehow.


Self-confidence is a vast topic and even small things can change your prospective, things like blessing from elders, a small pray to God, and a small token of belief can change your mind set. We all know where we lag, talk to your self, try to find out areas where you need improvement. I am sure practicing these ideas will help you in gaining your self-confidence.

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